Divine Date Night: Let The Games Begin
AKA: Santa Brings Gifts To This Ho-Ho-Ho
Monday, June 16th
4:37 p.m.: I had just stripped off my clothes and was about to turn the shower on when the phone rang. It was Captain Amazing calling.
“Hello There,” I said after I pushed the green phone button on my iPhone.
“How ya doing?” he replied. I could hear the grin on his face 🙂 #happiness
We exchanged our pleasantries. He said that he was home and asked how long it would take for me to be there.
“Well, I’d like to have Scotty beam me over in 5 minutes,” I thought to myself.
I came back to reality and told him I would need 20 minutes here and then I would come over.
He said, “Excellent. I have time to shower before you get here.”
Note – Sometimes he is showering when I arrive – and he leaves the door open for me. I like this because I have so much crap to carry in, which is not sexy, and that crap restricts the WOW FACTOR of the grand entrance I want to make – the one I dream up inside my head where I either attack him or he attacks me – or I arrive in full Princess Leia slave costume…
He then said he had something awkward to ask me.
“Ok,” I said.
He said, “I was hoping it would be okay if you don’t stay over tonight. I have a lot to do.”
I thought this was puzzling – mainly because I didn’t think this was an awkward thing to ask of me at all.
The way I see it – that’s one of the glorious benefits of NOT living with someone – Separate spaces –
I decided I would further explain my philosophy on this subject in person after I was there…
…because “in person” is best and because I really wanted to get off the phone and get over there as quickly as possible –
It had been a shit week and a shit weekend.
I said, “Of course, totally okay.”
He said, “Excellent, thank you. I also wanted to tell you that I went shopping for you today…well for us really. But I did go shopping with you on my mind.”
🙂 ❤ 🙂 ❤ 🙂 ❤ 🙂 ❤ 🙂 ❤ 🙂 ❤ 🙂 ❤ 🙂 ❤
Holy crap!!! I’m the luckiest girl in the world!!!
I said, “Yay, I’m so excited!!!”
I was actually jumping up and down, holding the phone in one hand, my breasts in the other hand – I wish it would have been a sexier thing to see – but I was alone, so who cares?
We ended the phone call, and I quickly jumped in a light shower – light meaning I just had to re-shave what I had already shaved that morning.
I make every attempt to be as silky smooth as possible. #stubbleisevil
I apply good-smelling yumminess all over my body – and I mean ALL OVER –
I like to imagine if a man were exploring my body with – his tongue, for example – he would come across little surprises of goodness – like the pure cocoa butter I wear with a subtle bouquet of chocolate, along with the hints of cherry from Love Spell –
…especially along the inner thigh, where I enjoy having a tongue slowly gliding up to my delicious delicate parts, tasting my silky smooth skin and drinking all of me in.
Side note – it’s been almost a week since my last “confession” – that last time on my knees at Captain Amazing’s altar of pleasure – and I am feeling every ache and twinge and tingle …
Shit – Is it Monday yet????!!!!
I finished beautifying myself and dashed out the door, down the stairs, and to the car. I started the car and the music. I chose Kid Rock – So Hott & Sugarfor my drive.
My text went off. At the red light, I read it –
“I also have a game for us to play,” he wrote.
OMG – He’s got game and he has games!!
OMG – I could not be happier if I tried. I don’t even think he understands how much I love games!
I reached down between my legs, so excited – sooo wet – 🙂 #happiness
I raced the few miles to his house and parked the car. He had shot over another text, telling me that the door was open. I texted him back that I had arrived.
I proceeded to lug the heavy things out of the car and tote them up to the door – We arrived at the door at the same time, and he helped me with the stuff, as he always does.
…and he greeted me with a super yummy kiss that lasted 3 days – just like I like it –
He was so excited to share his shopping spree with me but he had a plan…OMG, so much fun!
He pulled out the blindfold –
“Should I get undressed?” I asked.
Our first experiment with the handcuffs should have been done undressed – but we were just testing comfort.
He laughed. “No, there’s time for that later,” he said.
I let him put the blindfold on me, and he led me down the hall to the bedroom. He positioned me facing the bed, standing in the center at the foot of the bed.
He said, “I have created a display for you. Take your time and just reach down to the bed and make your way all the way around and touch everything…explore with your hands.”
“Are these inanimate objects?” I asked –
I thought that was a valid question. I didn’t know how I would react if I reached down and touched skin…
He laughed again and said, “Yes, they are all inanimate objects.”
I was now happy to play along. I reached down and the first object was my “familiar friend.”
This toy and I went back to the beginning of this little relatedness adventure – the first thing he ever “did” to me…well second because I made him kiss me first.
I reached down and touched each item and held it in my hands – felt textures, like leather, fur, rope material, cold metal, squishy silicone, and hard plastic.
Some things were obvious, some not so much – but none of it made me nervous or feel awkward.
There is something about this man that puts me at absolute ease even though he drives me completely wild.
He was talking to me as I explored, and he said this was all supposed to be fun.
Um – I’m having fun – Yes, I agree.
And he said that he wanted me to feel safe.
I paused, blindfolded still, and said, “I completely trust you.”
I don’t know what his expression was but when he responded to that, I could hear a smile.
After I had gone around the bed, he removed the blindfold, and we looked at and talked about everything that was there –
It sounds so matter-of-fact now, but it was cool and fun and comfortable and exciting all at the same time.
…and yes, he is meticulous and a bit OCD, so the display was impeccable and orderly.
As we made our way around, he indicated the items that he made himself – because he’s great with knots and wanted some things to function in a specific way.
“What should we play with first?” –
We were like kids at Christmas – with that overwhelming and paralyzing excitement that you get when you’ve unwrapped all of the presents and you just don’t know where to start with the toy-playing adventure –
Star Wars or Legos? Ride my shiny new bike? Eat my candy? Play new video games?
We started simple and fairly familiar – so we could build a foundation of funness.
Note – I’m typing the details somewhere else – I’ll post a link when the are ready.
I can say that at one point, I was on my back, with my head hanging off the foot of the bed – taking it all in, if ya know what I mean – and we had a great time.
After I finished my hysterical laughter that takes place after awesome orgasms and we reminisced about the adventure that had just taken place, we chatted a bit about the upcoming weekend – that conversation can be found in another chapter called “The Previous Weekend – Part 1: Party Planning.”
“We should go out this weekend,” he suggested. “We can go out for dinner and go to a movie.”
“Sure,” I said. “And Ms. Spa would like to meet you.”
“Deal,” he said.
“And whatever we decide to do,” I added, “I would also like a sexathon – like an all day thing. I have the whole weekend off.”
“That’s a given,” he said.
After resolving that, we were quiet for a bit. I looked over at him.
I said, “We should have taken a picture of your beautiful display. I’m sure my fans would have wanted to see it.”
“I can set it all back up for you,” he responded excitedly. “I agree. I think they would enjoy it.”
We got up. He proceeded to re-set-up the display of toys and hardware on the bed, while I set up shop in the other room.
I do take my job seriously and have serious boundaries around it –
He called out that it was about ready. I grabbed my iPad and went in the bedroom.
He was meticulously situating each item in place, moving ropes so they were “just so.”
I was so amused by this – and it warmed my heart???? WTF???
I was getting soft and gooey over a man carefully displaying equipment that could seriously harm me –
…and I was thinking: ❤ Awwww, that’s so cute!!!! ❤ …as if he was putting kittens on the bed….
I said, “By the way, I don’t ever expect to stay over.”
He stopped what he was doing and looked at me with a raised eyebrow, questioning what I had just said.
I said, “When I come here, I don’t assume I’m staying over. You have to invite me. I’ve only stayed when you’ve asked me to.”
“Fair enough,” he said. “But you can stay over tonight if you want to.”
????? Face palm –
I just let that go.
I’ve noticed that he says things which I believe are out of habit – not that he doesn’t mean them – He’s the most sincere and brutally honest man I have ever known – but sometimes his lack of filters lets out the sweet things as well as the crass things –
Don’t tell him I said that because I don’t want his filters to go up. I like everything just the way it is 🙂
8:30 p.m.: He said that he wasn’t feeling up for the chores that he needed to take care of and asked if I would like to go out.
We were both hungry.
We quickly got ready. I packed up my gear, and we took two cars – because I was going to go home after we went out.
I suggested we go to Sapporo because in the summer, they have Happy Hour all night long – And Happy Hour is awesome!
He followed me there. We parked and went inside and sat at the bar.
We looked at the menu – There were two items that caught my eye: “Yummy Yummy” and “Friends With Benefits” – 🙂
“Hey, we have to order those! That’s us!” I said.
He said, “That IS us, but we’re more than that.”
I gulped…silently I hoped…
…and then said, “Yeah, it’s kind of perfect.”
He said, “Yes, yes it IS perfect.”
Um, holy shit! Have I done something right???!!!
BTW, The Friends With Benefits roll was absolutely delicious!
We proceeded to talk and talk and talk – for the next few hours – effortlessly and nonstop – about books, sex, kids, work, childhood, sex, the people at the bar, threesomes, past sexual experiences – and Anne Rice’s Sleeping Beauty Trilogy;Enders Game; and The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo Trilogy.
…and he would look at me and kiss me at random times during this endless conversation about everything and nothing…
…and would rub my back…
I don’t remember the last time anyone has ever done that –
I don’t remember when (or if, more like) I was half of the pair sitting together making everyone else in the building envious because of the togetherness displayed in that moment.
He asked, “If we are still doing in this in 10 years, would that be ok with you?”
Holy shit! Um –
I calmly replied, “Heck yeah.”
“Ok good,” he said. “I wasn’t sure if women’s appetite diminishes at menopause.”
“No,” I said. “In fact, women who take care of themselves keep on loving it – I will be fitting into that category.”
It’s ironic how men peak in their 20s and we peak in our 40s – stereotypically speaking, of course, and then men like younger women whose sexual experiences and drives are weak at best. #boysarestupid
We didn’t notice that the lights had been turned off or that the music was off…or that everyone was gone…
…the manager walked over to us and kindly requested that we leave, so he could lock up the restaurant and go home.
We returned to reality where it was almost 1 a.m. – and left the building.
We said our goodbyes – and now I regretted not staying over and voiced as much – He said it was practical for today.
I drove home in fricking la-la land – pinching myself because I’m such a girl and I’m having the most fun EVER.
It’s sad that it took so long to discover that I could have this much fun.
I had a deep aching inside me too. I was simultaneously goofy and deeply emotional. WTF???
I arrived at my apartment and parked. I climbed up the stairs.
I sent him a text, informing him that I arrived at home and thanking him for an incredible night. I put my phone on the charger and turned the ringer off.
I stripped off my clothes and threw on a T-shirt over my Victoria’s Secret panties. I walked into the bathroom, brushed my teeth and cleaned my face.
I walked into my bedroom and climbed into bed…
❤ I love my bed ❤